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If you have never really tried any romance,
then start with simple things.
Romance can be something
very small and easy.
A husband often walks up to his wife and
gives her a kiss.
Next time, after you kiss your wife,
put your lips near her ear
"I love you."
Send your wife an e-mail or a text that says,
"I miss you - you are awesome!"
It is normal
Romance is taking the time
every few days
to let your wife know
that you still think about
how wonderful she is.
A wife needs to know
that she is still considered
valuable and precious in her husband's eyes.
Some women have more of a
need for romance and some have less.
But most women NEED some Romance.
Romance is about Red Hearts.
Romance is about whispering compliments.
Romance is about giving little notes with a simple sentence like, "You are Beautiful."
Romance is about helping your wife put on her coat.
Romance is about spending quality time with your wife with your cell phone turned off.
Romance is about presenting a flower and a kiss to your wife.
Romance is about taking the time to look at your wife and think of all the things you love about her. Then pick one and share it.
Romance is about happily helping your wife with something she needs help with around the house.
Romance is about making sure you tell your wife that you couldn't live without her.
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Deep in her heart,
a woman yearns to have a good relationship
with her husband.
sometimes she greatly fears that her
husband no longer loves her.
Make sure your wife
you love her.
Tell her through WORDS and ACTIONS.
The Secret to Divorce is
The following video
has a great ending full of wisdom.
There are 5 ways
to show love to your wife.
If you don't show her
in her favorite way,
she will not feel loved!
Gary Chapman wrote a book about those
Below Gary Chapman quickly explains
the Five Love Languages.
I give the highlights of the book on this page:
Tell a funny "joke" about your wife in public.
More than likely, your wife will not think the joke is funny.
No woman has wonderful
about being the brunt of her husband's jokes.
Wounding your wife never produces good things.
You will sacrifice happiness and intimacy in your marriage
for a couple of laughs from your friends.
Below is an excerpt from this article:
“I don’t mean it.” Yes you do.
“She doesn’t care.” Yes she does.
“They think it’s funny.” No we don’t.
Husbands: a little piece of advice—stop making fun of your wives.
Even if she can’t cook, drive or add, don’t air her faults in public. ...
A majority of comments meant in jest are just poorly thought through comments hoping for a cheap laugh. The intent is rarely evil, but we still need to stop it. The reward is not worth the risk.
Most women LOVE romance
easily respond to any romance from their husband.
If your wife is wounded,
may not be as joyfully received.
Hopefully your wife will be wise enough
and strong enough
to respond in a joyful way.
prayerfully consider continuing to gently romance her.
And read the next section.
If your wife has wounds
from your lack of romance,
you may have to be bold and brave
find a calm, quiet
time to apologize.
Consider getting on one knee.
"I have been thinking about how much I love you.
I have been thinking about how special you are to me.
You deserve to be treated like
the awesome woman you are.
You deserve some romance in your life.
Would you forgive me for not being romantic?"
If she says, no, then say.... "Well, I still sincerely apologize, and I hope one day you will forgive me."
Then if she is quiet, you just nicely and gently get up and walk out of the room in a loving way.
If she says, Yes, then say....
"I want to learn how to be
a more romantic.
If I try some simple romantic things,
will you overlook my awkwardness and
encourage me while I learn?"
If she says, "Yes" then you are ready to go!
If she says, "No" then you are getting a wake-up call that your wife may have some woundedness
that needs your prayers and compassion.
If she says, "No" then say something like,
"O.K. - Thank you for hearing me out
about this topic.
Even though you don't want romance right now,
I hope you realize that I love you very much."
be gentle with your wife,
give her time,
and she will probably begin to heal.
The good news is that
women are responders.
Over time, they almost always warm up
to love expressed by their husband.
"My wife said I never listen to her... or something like that."
Improve your listening and improve her response.
And, women need to realize that men can't
listen for long periods of time.
You will never slide effortlessly
into a better marriage.
But the GOOD NEWS is .....
If you pick the right resources,
you can get a HUGE amount of "Better"
without a HUGE amount of work.
But you do have to put forth determined effort.
Love is a VERB - an action VERB.
This website has great tips, resources,
and golden nuggets of understanding
that will make
Differences in your life.
We hope you will take time to review them.