Purity in Dating

Inspiration for Purity

in dating

This page isn't only for virgins - but also for

those who want to put purity back into their life.

This page has lots of men and women 
who will encourage you
to stay pure while dating.

Some on this page are virgins or were virgins when they married and some later  
added purity to their dating.

Please share this page

with adults and especially with teens

And here are prayers on this topic
that you can pray for those you love: Prayer


By the way,

I am only promoting the videos below.
I do not know these people.
I may disagree with
other videos they have.


If you don't like a video - skip to the

next one!

Hollywood Couple

John Tesh and Connie Sellecca

Famous and.... Pure

during their dating.

They were not virgins but decided to be pure when they started dating each other.

The entertaining video below

will give you

AMAZING understanding

about WHY

you should wait for sex until marriage!

The Punch line is 9 minutes 28 seconds through 14 minutes.

This video especially helps the girls to understand.

30 Great reasons

to choose purity! 

Next video

Nate and Sutton

Our wedding night as virgins.

Was it worth it?


Waiting on Sex is


Facts you don't know about

sex before marriage.


The next three videos

are from a man who had

lots of sex outside of marriage

and realized that

he needed to stop.

First video - 

"Women, wake up and choose purity!"

Second video - 

How I began to wake up.

Third video - 

The Pros and Cons of Purity

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The First Video

For virgins AND ESPECIALLY for women

who are having sex

and are not legally married.

Second Video

How a man

Woke up to the need for Purity

Third Video

Getting Real

The Pros and Cons of Purity

Sex blinds you to flaws in a person


Sex makes you Stupid!

God designed it that way to bless you in marriage...

The following 2 couples are married.

They remained pure during their dating. 

Listening to them is
inspiring and encouraging.

Paul and Morgan are the two on the right.

But the intro is confusing about who is who.

Shouldn't we have sex before marriage

to check 

to see if we are sexually compatible?

Why is sexual sin

different from other sins?

Everybody is doing it - Right?


Below you see Ben Shapiro answering questions and just happens to mention that he was a virgin when he got married. 

Everybody is NOT doing it.

A quick explanation about the video below...

Paul and Morgan were pure
during their dating.

Below they are acting in a


about being single.

They are trying to help inspire others

to make good decisions.


Below -

A short skit 





Below is an Inspirational Movie about

Staying Pure

in an impure World


This is a sexy movie about waiting until marriage.

It involves two non-virgins.

It is a great movie for men and women!

The above movie shows the way

(clumsy sometimes)

that a man

travels the road to dating in a pure way.

The movie is real about the challenges

AND about the rewards!

The ending is AWESOME!

The movie motivates virgins and non-virgins

to be PURE!


Purity Honors God!

More great movies....

Here are two chic flics that inspire purity - 

Undercover Bridesmaid and Princess Cut

Before we continue with more videos -

Consider this Purity Prayer

Dear Heavenly Father,

I desire to be pure.

I want to make right choices.

Help me to create good boundaries.

Remind me to stay alert and dedicated.

I pray these things in Jesus' name.


Being Pure during Dating.

Intimacy after waiting.

(only one was a virgin during dating)

I am not recommending the book. I haven't seen it.

Boundaries in Dating

This is from the couple in the video above

We also share how the goal of a courtship isn't just to put boundaries in, and then focus on completing them.  

Boundaries are prayerfully put in place because we know that our flesh is weak, and we truly desire to honor God in our relationships.

The goal of a courtship is to continue to pursue godliness, as we grow alongside one another, preparing for marriage.

The next video helps us with

protecting our 


This couple wants to help you:

Hold onto your Purity.

Putting God first


"Thy word have I hid in my heart, that I might not sin against thee."

Psalm 119:11

Three Tips to help you stay PURE!

Paul and Morgan 

continue to discuss purity.

What about kissing?


And yes, they are a little silly.

Love is Patient.

The following video

has some worthwhile thoughts - especially at the end.


Be careful about too much texting and too "deeply personal" texting. 

Your Wedding Night

Tips for your first night together -

Pick the location - clean, quiet, private, and beautiful.

Below, are more great tips for Your Wedding Night

The POWER of a

Celibate Man

I was reading comments under a Youtube video about purity.

In those comments, some people were

saying that they were living with

their boyfriend / girl friend but not having sex. 

I say - even IF (big If) you are doing that,  you are going against the Bible. 

God says,

"Abstain from even the appearance of evil."

1 Thessalonians 5:21

"Winking at sin leads to sorrow.

Bold reproof leads to peace."

Proverbs 13:13 TLB

God says "Don't do it."

AND .....Your neighbors will see you living together, and they will naturally assume things. 

AND we can easily see how easily they could fall into temptation......SO....Don't do it!


Godly men talking about


Waiting for Sex till Marriage

is Wise

Consider our other pages:

Issues with Lust

Great help withGetting free of Porn

Dating Tips for Women

Dating Tips for Men

Let us walk properly as in the daytime,

not in orgies and drunkenness,

not in sexual immorality and sensuality,

not in quarreling and jealousy.

Romans 13:13

One of the men

in one of the above videos said:

"It is hard to rebuke the sins that we sleep with."

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