Porn ruining my man & marriage

Please pray my husband will stop going to dating and porn sites.

I am so hurt and angry because we just had our 3rd child and money is tight. I am only pushing him away at this point bc I've heard lie after lie, and I'm about ready to divorce him. I can't stay with someone that will verbally abuse me and continue down the this path with no end in sight.

I am trying to trust God either way but my heart is breaking and turning cold on the verge of hating him. I don't want to lose him but if he chooses to live this way I'm not sure I can do much more than let him go and pray he will eventually get to a place of repentance on his own. I also need prayer to stop pitying myself and forgive him even though he doesn't seek my forgiveness.