Prayers for an angry spouse

Praying Prayers


an angry spouse

These prayers come at this problem from

different angles.


if you don't like a prayer,

consider checking out the prayers below it.


These prayers

are written for

an angry husband

so if you have

an angry wife

please adapt these prayers.

Also check out our other anger page

and all our marriage pages

Most people reading this page for the first time

are feeling tired.

So I start with this prayer.


I feel so tired of struggling to deal with an angry husband. 

Sometimes I feel so hopeless.

Refresh me today. Remind me of your enormous love for me. Comfort me and strengthen me.  

Lord, I pray that you will intervene in this situation and do a miracle. Touch ________'s  heart. Soften the hard, dry areas in his heart. Encourage him to walk down a path that leads to greater calmness, peace, and patience.

Lord, whisper your wisdom to him in times of tension.

Teach him how to experience calmness in the midst of frustrating circumstances.

Show him how to see opportunities for gentleness where he would previously only have seen opportunities for anger.

Mentor him in the day and even at night as he sleeps.

And help me to perceive instances of improvement in my husband -  even small or sporadic instances of improvement.

Remind me to praise you for each ray of hope - no matter how small. 

I pray these things in the Powerful name of Jesus,


Copyright © 2019 Beth McLendon of

Loving Lord,

You are Mighty and worthy to be praised.

I ask that you would

help my husband with his anger.

May my husband feel 


when he is resisting anger.

May he feel strong and rejuvenated

when he has won a battle with anger.

May he fully enjoy his victory when he has been 

victorious over anger.

And may he

lose every ounce of desire

that he has


giving in

to anger in his life.

In Jesus' name I pray,


Copyright © 2019 Beth McLendon of

Prayers for an angry spouse

Loving Lord,

Look into my heart.

See the enormous emotional pain I am experiencing.

Pour your compassion on me.

Bring your mercy and miracles to me, to my husband, and to our marriage.

God, my husband needs to understand what he is doing to our family.

He needs to gain wisdom and understanding on how to change.

And he needs your strength and motivation in order to change.

Lord, bring new thoughts to my husband.

Bring thoughts that will
enable him to know
how to
reduce the tensions
that he feels during the day.

Bring thoughts of the value of gentleness.

Bring thoughts about the joy of peaceful conversation and peaceful resolution of problems.

Bring thoughts to him that make him feel successful and heroic and courageous -  when he resists
the temptation to get angry.

I pray these things in the Miraculous and Mighty name of Jesus Christ,


Copyright © 2019 Beth McLendon of

A video that might help.

Lord of Love,

I need strength

to be loving and kind

even when my husband

is cold and hard and angry.

Help me.

In Jesus' name I pray,


Copyright © 2019 Beth McLendon of

Lord of Heavenly Love,

I pray that you would inspire my husband

to recognize and to ponder

the miraculous power

of gentleness,


and calmness.

In Jesus' name I pray,


Copyright © 2019 Beth McLendon of

“Gentle words cause life and health.”

Proverbs 15:4 TLB

Lord of Miracles,

Look at every detail of my marriage.

Call your attention to the pain I feel.

Bring me your strength and your wisdom. 

Bless my marriage. 

Heal our hurts.

Inspire us with right thoughts and attitudes.

Bring my husband a right mind-set about his anger issues and a renewed heart of love and compassion for me.

Bring us a MIRACLE.

In Jesus' name I pray,


Copyright © 2017 Beth McLendon of

Father of heavenly love,

Your voice is a voice of love.

When I am in the midst

of dealing with my husband's anger,

help me to hear your voice

of  Love

calling out wisdom to me.

In Jesus' name I pray,


Copyright © 2019 Beth McLendon of

God of all Wisdom,

Whisper to me each day

how to

Stand Strong

in You.


Loving Father,

Anger has invaded my home. 

Anger is disrupting my home and attacking your plans for peace and harmony in my home.

Purify my home. Purify my heart. Purify the heart of my husband.

Remind me that my battle is with spiritual forces - not my husband.

Remind me to see this situation as an attack against  "my husband and myself" not just as my husband's problem.

I ask these things in Jesus' name,


 Copyright ©  2019 Beth McLendon of

Lord of Miracles and Mercy,

I lift up my husband to you in prayer.

Father God, you have a father’s heart of love

that reaches out to ________

each moment of the day.

Your love and compassion for ________

is infinitely deep.

Lord, your love and your ability

to transform _______’s life

inspires me as I pray.

I ask that you would

help _______,

heal _______,


draw _______ toward you.

I ask for Mighty Miracles to shower down on _______

and transform _______ and his attitudes, his words, and his actions.

I ask these things in the

Victorious name of Jesus Christ,


 Copyright © 2017 Beth McLendon of

Father of Heavenly Love, 

Your word is Truth.

Your word is Inspirational.

Your word is Motivational.

Draw me


draw my husband

to read your Word more often

and follow its guidance more closely.

In Jesus' name I pray,


Copyright © 2019 Beth McLendon of

Loving Lord,

I come into your throne room seeking help from you.

My husband needs help.

And I need help to be a Powerful Wife who walks each day in Amazing Faith!

When I feel powerless, remind me of the Power of Prayer!

Right now, I am going to encourage myself.

Right now, I am going to pray Powerful Words...

God of all Power - Rescue my husband. Rescue me. Rescue our marriage!

God of all Mercy  - Surround us with your help. 

God of all Love - Light up the path of Freedom so that my husband can easily see the way to Victory.

God of all Wisdom - Whisper words of Wisdom and Encouragement to my husband.

Do miracles, Lord.

And God, grab my attention during my day and remind me to pray Powerful Prayers!

I pray these things in the Mighty name of Jesus,


Copyright ©  2017 Beth McLendon of

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