Romance Tips for Men




Learn about the

FUN

of Romance


This page will

Inspire YOU

to

try a little

Romance



Let's Get STARTED!

Let's Get MOVING!


Easy First Steps




If you have never really tried any romance,

then start with simple things.

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Romance can be something

very small and easy.


Try this

A husband often walks up to his wife and
gives her a kiss.
Next time, after you kiss your wife,
put your lips near her ear
and whisper,
"I love you."

OR


Try this


Send your wife an e-mail or a text that says,

"I miss you - you are awesome!"


It is normal

for women

to love

romance.

For Beginners


Romance is taking the time

every few days

to let your wife know

that you still think about

how wonderful she is.

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A wife needs to know

that she is still considered

valuable and precious in her husband's eyes.


Some women have more of a
need for romance and some have less.

But most women NEED some Romance.


Red Hearts



Romance is about Red Hearts.

Romance is about whispering compliments.

Romance is about giving little notes with a simple sentence like, "You are Beautiful."

Romance is about helping your wife put on her coat.

Romance is about spending quality time with your wife with your cell phone turned off.

Romance is about presenting a flower and a kiss to your wife.

Romance is about taking the time to look at your wife and think of all the things you love about her. Then pick one and share it.

Romance is about happily helping your wife with something she needs help with around the house.

Romance is about making sure you tell your wife that you couldn't live without her.

This site has LOTS of Romance pages.

For our introduction to romance click:

Romantic Ideas

For Creative Fun Ideas visit:

Springtime Romance Ideas


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Deep in her heart,

a woman yearns to have a good relationship

with her husband.

But sometimes she greatly fears that her

husband no longer loves her.

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A Husband's Prayer

that is music to a wife's ears.

God wants to help your marriage

to be
   HAPPY....

Stupendously

HAPPY!



The Secret to Divorce is

Hardheartedness.

Click here to get

great tips on a great marriage!


The Five Love Languages



There are 5 ways

to show your wife love.

If you don't show her

in her favorite way,

she will not feel loved!


Gary Chapman wrote a book about those

Five Ways.



Below Gary Chapman quickly explains

the Five Love Languages.



I give the highlights of the book on this page:

The Five Love Languages.


AND Then

At the bottom of this page,

           We have an audio presentation of the book.


Wounded Wives Section


Most women LOVE romance

and

easily respond to any romance from their husband.


But...

If your wife is wounded,

romantic overtures

may not be as joyfully received.

Hopefully your wife will be wise enough
and strong enough
to respond in a joyful way.

Nevertheless,

prayerfully consider continuing to gently romance her.

If your wife has wounds

from your lack of romance,

you may have to be bold and brave

and

find a calm, quiet

time to apologize.
- -
Consider getting on one knee.

Tell her,

"I have been thinking about how much I love you.

I have been thinking about how special you are to me.

You deserve to be treated like
the awesome woman you are.

You deserve some romance in your life.

Would you forgive me for not being romantic?"

If she says, no, then say.... "Well, I still sincerely apologize, and I hope one day you will forgive me."
Then if she is quiet, you just nicely and gently get up and walk out of the room in a loving way.

If she says, Yes, then say....


"I want to learn how to be
a more romantic.


If I try some simple romantic things,
will you overlook my awkwardness and
encourage me while I learn?"

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If she says, "Yes" then you are ready to go!


If she says, "No" then you are getting a wake-up call that your wife may have some woundedness
that needs your prayers and compassion.

If she says, "No" then say something like,
"O.K. -  Thank you for hearing me out
about this topic.
Even though you don't want romance right now,
I hope you realize that I love you very much."


Husbands,
be gentle with your wife,
give her time,

and she will probably begin to heal.

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The good news is that
women are responders.
Over time, they almost always warm up
to love expressed by their husband.





The Good News


You will never slide effortlessly

into a better marriage.

But the GOOD NEWS is .....

 

If you pick the right resources,

you can get a HUGE amount of "Better"

without a HUGE amount of work.

But you do have to put forth determined effort.

Love is a VERB - an action VERB.


This website has great tips, resources,

and golden nuggets of understanding

that will make

BIG

Differences in your life.

We hope you will take time to review them.


Video



An Audio Book Presentation

of

The Five Love Languages


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